Want to spread some holiday joy? Adopt a family this Christmas

Written by on November 18, 2009 in Neighborhood News - 8 Comments

Somewhere between predictions of a harsh winter and an anemic bottom line on Black Friday, there’s a young segment of the population that is looking forward to the holiday every bit as much as their parents are dreading it.
With the non-stop marketing of toys and games comes the sick dread felt by parents who can’t afford them. Sometimes, it’s because of job loss and subsequent loss of medical coverage. Sometimes, it’s because of unanticipated expenses like car repairs or home improvements. Sometimes, just the need to make ends meet means that there’s little left over for presents after paying rent, utilities or other expenses.
And that, says Allison Pendell Jones, secretary of the Downtown Baltimore Family Business Alliance, is where the Adopt-A-Family program comes in. The program, which allows families, individuals, businesses and others the ability to provide holiday gifts to local children, is gearing up for this season, and is looking for those willing to play Santa (in name only; no wearing of beards and red suits required).
Through the program, those who are interested can complete an online form with the Downtown Baltimore Family Business Alliance (available on the website of www.dbfam.org), and will receive, by e-mail, a wish list provided by a local family. The list will include details on each child’s age, gender, clothing size, and a list of items the child might like (as indicated by the parent). Those who sign up are asked to purchase at least one gift for each child in the family. The ability of what to purchase and how much to spend, says Pendell Jones, is the choice of the individual who signs up.
“(The amount spent) varies quite a bit on what the adopting family decides to do,” she notes. “The expectation is one gift per child, and most families have about two kids. So it can be as little as $20 to $30. However, from our experience last year, most families purchase several items for each child and likely spent, on average, $100. I would add that some spent well over that amount and were incredibly generous buying items for the entire family, although that certainly is beyond expectations.”
Those who are interested in helping sponsor a family must sign up no later than Monday, Nov. 23. Wish lists will be sent out no later than Wednesday, Nov. 25.
This year, as they did last year, the organization is partnering with Wolfe Street Academy, which serves PreK to 5th grade students. (Some families will also have younger children, and some will have students in middle school or high school as well). Almost 75% of the students attending qulify for free or reduced-price lunch, according to the DBFA website.
This is the second year the program has been offered, adds Pendell Jones. Last year, DBFA was able to match nearly 100 families through the program, far exceeding its initial estimate.
“The response has been overwhelming,” says Pendell Jones. “Last year, we in fact had more adopting families at one point and we were able to identify some additional families in need to match with our generous families wanting to help. This year, I’ve expereienced the same, wonderful response.”
And more help, she notes, is always needed. “I would say that the need is greater this year, given the economy. I’ve been pleasantly surprised to see that even in this tough economy, families are as willing, if not more so, to help other members of their community. We already have more families signed up to help then we did last year.”
Once an individual or group has signed up, received the wish list and purchased presents, the presents can be delivered (unwrapped) to Wolfe Street Academy, 245 S. Wolfe Street (at Gough Street) on Friday, Dec. 11 between 2 p.m. and 7 p.m., or on Saturday, Dec. 12, between 9 a.m. and 11 a.m. (Alternate drop-off dates can be arranged, if necessary). Families will pick up their gifts on Sunday.
Local merchants including aMuse Toys in Fells Point and Ladybugs and Fireflies in Federal Hill will offer a 15 percent discount on toys purchased for children in the program, as long as the buyer brings the family’s wish list in when making purchases.
Information on the program is available on the website of www.dfba.org or e-mail adoptafamily@dbfam.org. The website is www.dfba.org. The DFBA is also planning to expand the program in subsequent years (although not this holiday season), and is asking for suggestions of additional schools where students might be good candidates to receive presents. Suggestions can be e-mailed to the above address.
Note: The deadline to adopt a family this year is Monday, Nov. 23.

—by Mary Helen Sprecher

8 Comments on "Want to spread some holiday joy? Adopt a family this Christmas"

  1. Heather Hewitt September 25, 2014 at 3:16 am · Reply

    I am a mother in despert need of help .I have three childern,8,9,15 years of 2012 old.We lost our home in the summer of 2012.Not only our home our way of life everything changed for us.We lost our car,and storage soon after.Then my husband went to prison for 15 years.We have been staying here andthere but are homeless .I judt want my childern to have a nice christmas I would love to see them have something of there own new or used.They deserve so much more.Hopefully we will get things back to normal soon.zI pray to god.thank you foryour time.

  2. becky November 30, 2013 at 10:48 am · Reply

    hi my names becky, i have a two year old son and i am a single mom with no income right now and the only help i get is from my grand mother …. i am asking for help with christmas gifts right now in life i am in need of help i have nothing for my lil man and i pray to find help if any one can give me infromation im trying to find info about adopt a family for christmas…. my emails beckyjustice4200@yahoo.com please email me and let me know i check it every day thank you so much and god bless…

  3. Tausha December 5, 2012 at 7:16 am · Reply

    I am in need of help for the Christmas holiday, I have four children of which two lives with me, I have two bills totaling out to 7,000 dollars and can’t get help anywhere for them. So I am asking for help to give my babies a Christmas they deserve. My son is 12 and my daughter is 8, any help of any kind will be greatly appreciated. Thank you please contact me by email at tausha6180@gmail.com.

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  5. Inez November 13, 2012 at 7:25 am · Reply

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  6. Latoya October 5, 2012 at 7:33 am · Reply

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  7. Jennifer December 4, 2011 at 11:09 pm · Reply

    To Whom It May Concern
    My name is Jennifer and I’m 24 years old and I have been taking care of my little brother Emmanuel  for 6 years on my own I have no family that will helps us out. He is 11 years old and will be 12 on November 29. We just need help. We just find out that he has type 1 diabetes. He is requires for injections of insulin per day and blood sugar are monitored up to 6 times per day. We just moved into our own new home. And to top it all off I just lost my job because I have to call out to take my brother to ALL his clinic visits. I hope someone can find it in there heart to help us. I’m NOT asking for toys or anything for myself I just want my brother to be HAPPY and get something for Christmas like clothes.Please someone email me at jmills2010@ymail.com
    Please someone help us this holiday! Thanks!

  8. Dorothy Craig November 30, 2011 at 11:43 am · Reply

    I know a family that is in dire need of assistance this Christmas. If this information can be passed on for someone to help this family it would truly be a Blessing to this family.
    Mother: Phyllis Scott age 50 ( 6 children);5 boys ages 17, 11, 8, 6, 5; 1 girl 13.

    Mother’s information: Address 712 N Streeper Street Baltimore Maryland 21213 Phone: 301-740-5227.

    Thank you
    Dorothy Craig 443-470-2884 Concerned Friend

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